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Get to know people better

Short, practical guides on asking good questions, starting a conversation and meeting safely.

40 questions to really get to know someone

Forty questions for a first chat or a first date: easy openers, curious follow-ups and the ones that tell you who someone is.
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What to write in a first message: 8 ways to start a conversation

Skip "hey" and get a reply: eight first-message approaches that work, with examples, plus the openers to avoid.
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Online dating safety: 10 rules before you meet

Ten practical rules for meeting someone from a dating app safely: chatting, the first date, personal details and reporting.
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